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Why can't guys make up their mind?

I just wanted to know the definition of the perfect girlfriend. Every guy I ask pretty much says the same thing, but who actually means it. I love video games. I enjoy going to or watching sporting events with my guy. I am not the jealous type, in fact sometimes I have friends "join us" once in a while for fun. I don't care if he goes out with the guys, we are all entitled to our time. I'm independent and don't mind picking up the check a couple of times. I love stupid humor and participate in it frequently. I don't mind getting dirty and being hands on. Yet I know how to dress up and apply makeup. I can out burp you, yet I can be taken home to impress the parents. I'm naturally gifted to where I don't need any type of cosmetic surgery. Why do I hit all these points yet the barbie doll always gets chosen over me? I don't get you guys at all.

Public Comments

1. Guys do make up their minds. They want HOT chicks.
2. For men anything about a women's personality comes in a distant 2nd to her looks.
3. We can make up our minds, every time.......well, most of the time...... actually a lot of the time......... ok, sometimes........ nevermind
4. that makes two of us. i don't know that there is a "perfect girlfriend" but you sound like one to me! don't change, but be proud of who you are. someday (i always have hope) someone mature will come along and say, "where have you been all of my life?"
5. O_O you sound like me. usually one of the guys, that always bothered me too, guys have the tendency to choose...the...slutty looking girls. the ones that are willing to "put out" but i personally believe that a guy that cant accept you for who you are, and trys to change you to fit his perfect girl, isnt worth the time or the effort. men are fickle, and sex obsessed lol.
6. well u sound great and if u and i werent taken i would ask u out but we do make up our minds and personally i hate barbie dolls but if u r brunett like video games and are a good kisser and i dont mind if u have glasses u r cool!
7. Sometimes, it's just about sex. I'm KIDDING!!! You know, it depends on how old you are, and what age group of guys your dating. When I was younger, I didn't realize what I really want in girl. It would change very quickly. I think most are in the same boat. The more the guy dates, then the easier it is for them to figure out what they really want in a girl. Sometimes they may say they want something, and think they do, then it turns out they don't. I guess that's the easiest way to explain. Hang in there, I'm sure it has nothing to do with you. I'm sure a few guys will be dying to be with you soon.
8. Your problem is that you are trying to be a man's GIRLFRIEND and that is not the correct approach most of the time. A man does not want to feel trapped or obligated too soon and that most likely is at the root of your issues. The barbie dolls win usually, because they know that they possess what men want and they make it difficult for the man, which in turn makes the man desire her more. This of course does not work on every man as there are 'players' who know how to play the 'game', but I'd say the majority of guys (more than 90%) would fall for barbie.
9. ASL? :P Just kidding, you'll find the right guy eventually, just be patient, and don't flaunt yourself too much. Also try not to be "just one of the guys," because then you'll be a guy in their mind too. Be feminine, yet perfect with the whole video game sports thing.
10. For the same reason that you females can't make up your minds sometimes.